Growing up means to make choices, and take responsibilities for the consequences that might come of them. All of them. Good and bad, they always walk together. We all have choices to make. What is a good choice? why something is better then the other? "If it makes you happy it can't be that bad", wrong! yes it can.
We all make bad choices, but if you learn, then it was not in vain. Is it? there are some lessons that we wouldn't mind to just have heard about. Some we wish we had never learned. We don't have a choice but to learn. and yet, we don't.
Don't regret your choices, be proud of your mistakes. Wear your scars like a medal of honor. Fill yourself with pride because you can say, "i survived this". Make mistakes, by God make mistakes.
Be brave to see an opportunity and to grab it, even if you know that is not the "smart" thing to do. Even if all the opinions that you respect tell you that it is a bad idea. Take a chance to start something new. Only you know what is best for you. Respect your own opinion. Make yourself happy.
When a love ends you must let that part of you die the part with which you loved, if you love with all you have, all you are must die. And it did. Last time a love ended i was left alone, broken, hopeless, loveless. This time around, i won't let that happen. This time, it will leave me full, of hope, of joy, of love.
Something leaving can make you full? Yes. Don't give more then what you can lose. Don't create unreal expectations. Don't let an exterior loci be responsible for who you are and your own existence. Stand alone and stand proud. Allow people to stand with you but never on you.
Aren't you happy you are all grown up?
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